Is being ambitious and goal driven stopping you from finding love? A must read for every women chasi



You know what my heart really wants. Someone to love. Like deeply love. And I want my person one day to deeply love me to. I want the kind of love thats unconditional and I want it to be true. I want to build a life with my person and not just sit in the background observing and photographing couples that have done it right. I want to share in both the ups and downs of this thing called life. I want to grow with my person through life and grow old together.

My heart wants what every heart wants and rightfully deserves.


Finding love for me, has been the single most difficult thing I have ever had to do, and it often leaves me feeling like I am less deserving than others or that there is something wrong with me. It is because of this that has lead me to writing this post.

This has been something that has weighed heavily on my heart for more years than I can possibly count.

I am turning 34 this year, and by now I thought I would have found it. Be it in South Africa or any where else in the world. But I am still searching. For the last 7 years almost every single guy that I have met or gone on a few dates with me have uttered one or more of the following:

"You are to Ambitious..."

"...to passionate"

"...to independent"

"You will make a terrible mother and wife someday"

or when we have been dating for a few months I am expected to give it all up everything that makes my heart happy.